which in fact, I never put anyone before anyone but merely thinking of the best plan in terms of saving cost, time and etc.
But then it did guides me to thinking about whether which comes to first.
Logically speaking, my friends or especially some best friend which I knew since primary school, as I described, they were with me more than 14 years.
Although it is not very long, but it is neither too short.
A 14 years and more friendship is not something easy to maintain and to give up or let go so easily.
Like any kind of relationship, the more time you invested in, the deeper the relationship are.
It is not that kind of relationship that can be merely explains by the word "friendship".
It is something more.
It is then you grow up, you attracted to girls, or girls attracted to boys, or boy to boy, or girl to girl. Whatever it is, you start a romantic relationship.
It is commonly seen that people stepped out from their "friend"ship, and immersed themselves in the shower of love.
Then I wonder,
if your girl or boy saying you spent more time with your friends more than them,
is it something really intolerable?
A 14 years+ r'ship vs. maybe few months or weeks r'ship,
14 wins by number.
But then years of r'ship do not equivalent to the bonding; more years doesn't mean you are more close to each other.
And think about it again,
when your-another-half saying so,
why not the friends saying the same things as well?
I believe they do have the right to complain about friends become substitution when you are attached.
Frankly speaking, they are the one who also accompany through the pain, the happiness,
your moment of grief, your moment of loneliness.
They still spent time with you crazy-ing around, giving you advice,
support you financially when you are in deep shit and needed help.
they are there when your tears are all over the shirt and still sobbing wanted to leave the house.
And because of them, you are still in your house, and grateful that you never make that silly mistake.
Wow. I never thought that they are so significant until I really said it all out.
The best way should be the combination of both?
Win-win solution are definitely with the ability to balance up both.
I don't really care who comes first or another, as they are equally important to me.
I can lose neither.
Even if that stupid question arise again, asking who to save first when both of them are drop into the sea, I might as well drown myself too. Or perhaps, I will use the so-sweet-answer, to save my friends and jump back into the sea to die with my beloved.
Because I can't live w/o her, and I CONFIDENTLY sure she is as well neither to live in grief.
2 comments:
don't you worry, i can swim.
you don't have to save me in anyway.
wow. this sentence wa suka!
"asking who to save first when both of them are drop into the sea, I might as well drown myself too."
The best choice you can make XD
不能同年同日生 只願同年同日死 XD =p
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